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NewWorldOrder
September 11th, 2007, 10:45 AM
Kathe, I your posts above hit it. It isn't as if homeschooled kids don't know how to talk to kids their own age.....its the subject matter.....my kids are public schooled(hopefully for not much longer!!!) Their best friends are in two different families of 9 kids each that are homeschooled. Our kids relate to them. They understand respect of parents, and elders, morals, no cussing, they understand that God comes first. We have carefully watched over the few friendships my kids have at school. We usually end up sending the child home after reminding them for the 4th time that their is no cussing in our home, no hitting, no name calling. We don't have that problem with the homeschooled kids(we have a few ps friends that are from god fearing Families.....no problem there).

I have had a big time burden on my heart to take my kids out of public school. Right now, I would do it with the drop of a hat if I had the materials.....it just isn't in the budget at all. We pray about it everyday.....

House of Light :hug If you and your husband are in agreement to homeschool your children, then you should do it. Materials can be bought cheap if you know where to go. The best way to buy cheap is to buy used. I can give you some places to check out that sell used homeschool curriculum. There are also curriculum swaps, you just have to search and try to find them. If you know someone who homeschools, I can almost guarantee, that they will lend you some materials to get you started. Most homeschoolers will photocopy their materials, so it can be used again. Homeschoolers don't mind helping each other out, and we love networking. If you want to go ahead and start homeschooling, right now is the best time to start because it's still early in the school year.

Another thing to do, and I do this often, is to buy your materials as you go. Start with one or two subjects, move quickly in them, then when you have enough money aside, purchase more curriculum in a different subject and begin that subject in the middle of the semester or the beginning of the next semester. When we homeschool, we aren't tied down to a traditional calendar school year. If you break up your subjects by just doing say history and language first, you can spend more time doing those subjects, and will move quicker because you don't have a whole bunch of subjects to teach. When you are finished, then you can begin math and science, or whatever it is you want to start.

If you want some of those links to some used homeschool stores just ask. If you live in the Dallas/FortWorth area then that's even better. We have TWO used homeschool stores, that really get a lot of business. There's also a Christian office supply store that sells brand new homeschool curriculum, but I don't go there very often. You may want to get online and do a local search for homeschool stores in your area, or ask other homeschoolers in your area where they purchase their materials.

I found this homeschool organization in your state. You may want to check it out.

http://www.ndhsa.org/

House of Light
September 11th, 2007, 10:51 AM
Thank you....will check out the link!

CircleSlide
September 11th, 2007, 11:40 AM
My best friends daughter is home schooled (she went to public HS, but has Asperger's and found it to be all to overwhelming for her). She is now home schooled and is dueled enrolled in Indiana University. She attends classes on campus. She has found this to be completely different than public high school and loves it. She did tell me last week that she hopes the classes get harder because they were a little too easy.

College for her is about learning, where as high school was so much social stuff; why do you have to be made fun of because you like to read, or because you don't date. She was called a Lesbian (in high school) because of this, and for her it was crushing.

Homeschoolers (many) already have the skills needed to succeed in college, they know how to organize their time, can set goals, focus. Our good friend recently graduated from Purdue University with a degree in engineering, he was home schooled.


BTW, my kids attend a private school.

Kathe
September 11th, 2007, 05:41 PM
House of Light,

Another thing to consider is the money you spend in public schools on materials, school functions, field trips, teacher gifts, etc all add up. That money can go a long long way to math books, etc especially when buying used. We are homeschooling on a budget because my husband is doing it and could be making $100K or more per year. That's a bunch of money to give up but it is so worth it and we don't regret it for a second. We buy things as we see them go on sale at the teacher store or even get great deals on stuff at Sam's Club. We hang out with a bunch of other homeschoolers and find great info through them all of the time or they have stuff they aren't using. We found our phonics program really cheap on ebay.

If this is on your heart to do, God will make it possible. NWO had some great suggestions.

Kathe

RRuth
September 11th, 2007, 08:45 PM
Whether we homeschool or public school, we CAN make a difference in our kids lives by being INVOLVED. :thumb

wife
September 11th, 2007, 09:38 PM
I have used the sam's books for many things. One book generally lasts 2 years and many of them are for multi grade levels. My son did a geography and it lasted 2 years and a Language arts that lasted 2 years. I spend a total of $10 on the 2 books!!

adam423
September 11th, 2007, 09:46 PM
After watching Glen Beck last night and tonight, I'm glad I homeschool. I won't be surprised to see the number of people homeschooling rise as these threats to public schools contnue.

KBKMNN
September 13th, 2007, 07:12 AM
Hi all, my second posting here. I started homeschooling my son in first grade. He is autistic but high functioning. As a toddler he went to special ed classes in school and then they put him in a regular kindergarden class. That was ok, except the teacher called me because he just wasn't doing well. So for that one year, I went in his class every morning for about 3 hours to help him, and plus I really enjoyed the other kids too.
Anyway, they were going to let him go to first grade for the next year and I felt led to homeschool him. I've never regretted it. He is the type of child who NEEDS that one on one, otherwise, he just gets lost. He is very smart, but just needs to focus and he can't possibly do that in a room with 1 teacher and 20 plus kids.
He's in 4th grade now and I do 3rd and 4th grade stuff with him. And on his own, he learned ALL the presidents, how many terms they ran, how tall they were (lol), and what years they ran, etc. He's been a joy and a blessing to homeschool.
I can't really find much to be negative about.

bobbi

topekaclark
September 13th, 2007, 11:13 AM
I started homeschooling year with one of our younger children. I love it. I took the older one out this year and now hs two. I don't regret, there are so many activities to do with the kids through co-ops. Material can be inexpensive if you bargain shop.

I, too have been watching Glen Beck. I have an older on in high school. It's worrisome. Just another benefit to hs.

Hs can be done, if you put your mind to it. You've parent your child why not continue into his education. I know in the beginning I had soooo many doubts and fears. I did pray on it, the Lord has been good. He opened doors and eased my fears.

I have yet to see any negative consequences to hs.

Cookies4me
September 13th, 2007, 11:45 AM
House of light this link may help you. I Have not done this program but I hear it's a good one. http://www.amblesideonline.org/New.shtml