bek1
November 2nd, 2009, 06:25 PM
What part of OR are you in? I am originally from WA state and have a lot of family in OR. Some in the Portland area and some in Corvallis area.
My advice is to keep looking until you find a sound, biblical based, church that has a heavy emphasis on biblical prophecy and equipping the body for Christ's return. One with sound doctrine. (and on a personal note, I wouldn't feel comfortable in a church that puts a lot of emphasis on tongues either.) It really sounds like the way you are going about it is really good. Most people in this day and age don't even care about the doctrinal statement of a church. Keep looking online at the churches in your area (if they have websites) and always pay close attention to their doctrinal statements and their vision. If the website doesn't include everything you need to know, then call them up and talk with someone on staff. (or if you drive by a church but they don't have a website.) My advice is to not blindly walk into any church without thorough investigation first. And above all, keep praying for discernment and direction. The Lord wants you involved in a local church body and He will provide. Hang in there, as it can be such a long process and very discouraging at times. Oh, and if you are getting close to considering a visit to a church and they have a website, check to see if they have recorded sermons on their site that you can listen to.
We recently moved (6 months ago) from WA state to Phoenix AZ area. Leaving our church family was probably one of the hardest things I have ever experienced in my whole life. I LOVED my church (and still do!) We knew that the search to find a new church could be challenging and frustrating and potentially very discouraging. God was the One who moved us from WA to AZ, so knowing this was His will, we also had to trust He would place us exactly where He wanted us within the church locally. But it was still very hard, as the church we came from was probably the best teaching I had ever recieved in the Word, and the local body we were apart of was just an amazing family. We grew by leaps and bounds while we were there, and then God said "ok, time to go now...i have other plans". Our constant prayer through this transition was ideally to find a place that had teaching along the same lines. (we love the type of teaching that is vs by vs teaching through the Word -expository?..i think is what is called...rather than topical..) We longed for a church body that had heavy emphasis on biblical prophecy and such. Anyway, (sorry this is such a long reply) while we were searching for a church, we continued to listen to our old pastor's teaching online. We did a lot of online research into churches and often would call and talk to a pastor or assistant pastor prior to visiting a church to get a little more info. Our concern really wasn't so much about programs, music and such, but the teaching content, doctrine and vision and focus of the church. We visited several churches before finding our new home. God is so amazing in how he brought it about. I was reading a book review online about a book that was written on a subject I am passionate about. A particular doctrine. The person reviewing the book was someone who I totally agreed with and just someone likeminded. When I got to the end of the article to see who wrote it, it turned out to be a professer at a local Seminary in the area. I emailed him and explained to him our longing to find a local church body to be involved in, and let him know what kinds of things we were looking for. He replied almost immediately with a recommendation of a church near us. The pastor and associate pastor have both been mentored and/or taught by this professer and he indicated it may be just what we were looking for. We visited and fell in love...fell in love with the teaching, the people and just the church. We know without a doubt this is where God intended us to be and the wait and research and everything was all worth it. And the other prayer we kept praying was not just for a church that edified our needs for sound, biblical teaching etc, but the place where God wanted us to serve and be involved using our gifts for His glory.
One thing to keep in mind as you search, is there are non compromising aspects to look for (like someone mentioned above) and then other not necessarily things you absolutely have to have, but it would be nice things. Be willing to compromise on the things that aren't necessary if God is leading you to. It could be that there is a church body that needs your gifts more than you need whatever thing it might be you want but isn't necessary. (does that make sense?) And it's always good for us to remember that all churches have area's of weakness and dysfunction...and people will disappoint us at some time or another within the church body. We need to hang in there for better or for worse even if it's not comfortable to do so sometimes. (this is more down the road once you find a good church and decide to stick with it.) Oh, and once you find a church you like, give yourself a month or so of going before you decide it's the church where God wants you. (might be a good idea not to commit to any services or ministry's during the first month in case you decide it's not the right place.)
Anyway, that may have been more of a response than you were looking for, but it was all so fresh in my memory after just going through it myself. We have now been at our new church for 4 months. It is such a blessing.
Blessings to you in your search. Keep praying! God will bless your desire to find the right place.
My advice is to keep looking until you find a sound, biblical based, church that has a heavy emphasis on biblical prophecy and equipping the body for Christ's return. One with sound doctrine. (and on a personal note, I wouldn't feel comfortable in a church that puts a lot of emphasis on tongues either.) It really sounds like the way you are going about it is really good. Most people in this day and age don't even care about the doctrinal statement of a church. Keep looking online at the churches in your area (if they have websites) and always pay close attention to their doctrinal statements and their vision. If the website doesn't include everything you need to know, then call them up and talk with someone on staff. (or if you drive by a church but they don't have a website.) My advice is to not blindly walk into any church without thorough investigation first. And above all, keep praying for discernment and direction. The Lord wants you involved in a local church body and He will provide. Hang in there, as it can be such a long process and very discouraging at times. Oh, and if you are getting close to considering a visit to a church and they have a website, check to see if they have recorded sermons on their site that you can listen to.
We recently moved (6 months ago) from WA state to Phoenix AZ area. Leaving our church family was probably one of the hardest things I have ever experienced in my whole life. I LOVED my church (and still do!) We knew that the search to find a new church could be challenging and frustrating and potentially very discouraging. God was the One who moved us from WA to AZ, so knowing this was His will, we also had to trust He would place us exactly where He wanted us within the church locally. But it was still very hard, as the church we came from was probably the best teaching I had ever recieved in the Word, and the local body we were apart of was just an amazing family. We grew by leaps and bounds while we were there, and then God said "ok, time to go now...i have other plans". Our constant prayer through this transition was ideally to find a place that had teaching along the same lines. (we love the type of teaching that is vs by vs teaching through the Word -expository?..i think is what is called...rather than topical..) We longed for a church body that had heavy emphasis on biblical prophecy and such. Anyway, (sorry this is such a long reply) while we were searching for a church, we continued to listen to our old pastor's teaching online. We did a lot of online research into churches and often would call and talk to a pastor or assistant pastor prior to visiting a church to get a little more info. Our concern really wasn't so much about programs, music and such, but the teaching content, doctrine and vision and focus of the church. We visited several churches before finding our new home. God is so amazing in how he brought it about. I was reading a book review online about a book that was written on a subject I am passionate about. A particular doctrine. The person reviewing the book was someone who I totally agreed with and just someone likeminded. When I got to the end of the article to see who wrote it, it turned out to be a professer at a local Seminary in the area. I emailed him and explained to him our longing to find a local church body to be involved in, and let him know what kinds of things we were looking for. He replied almost immediately with a recommendation of a church near us. The pastor and associate pastor have both been mentored and/or taught by this professer and he indicated it may be just what we were looking for. We visited and fell in love...fell in love with the teaching, the people and just the church. We know without a doubt this is where God intended us to be and the wait and research and everything was all worth it. And the other prayer we kept praying was not just for a church that edified our needs for sound, biblical teaching etc, but the place where God wanted us to serve and be involved using our gifts for His glory.
One thing to keep in mind as you search, is there are non compromising aspects to look for (like someone mentioned above) and then other not necessarily things you absolutely have to have, but it would be nice things. Be willing to compromise on the things that aren't necessary if God is leading you to. It could be that there is a church body that needs your gifts more than you need whatever thing it might be you want but isn't necessary. (does that make sense?) And it's always good for us to remember that all churches have area's of weakness and dysfunction...and people will disappoint us at some time or another within the church body. We need to hang in there for better or for worse even if it's not comfortable to do so sometimes. (this is more down the road once you find a good church and decide to stick with it.) Oh, and once you find a church you like, give yourself a month or so of going before you decide it's the church where God wants you. (might be a good idea not to commit to any services or ministry's during the first month in case you decide it's not the right place.)
Anyway, that may have been more of a response than you were looking for, but it was all so fresh in my memory after just going through it myself. We have now been at our new church for 4 months. It is such a blessing.
Blessings to you in your search. Keep praying! God will bless your desire to find the right place.