Terribly shy and single.

[LukeL007]

I am a very shy person with little to no self confidence and am single and never been in a relationship. (I am 24) I pray every night God will bless me with someone but it never happens. I really do not know what to do.

[Jsmythe]

I didn't go on my first date until I was 34 and I met a wonderful Christian woman at the age of 35 and we have been dating for over a year now. I guess the old adage "good things come to those who wait" is true. Don't give up or do anything rash like I did when I was younger because I was so discouraged by my life.

[Highland888]

I am a very shy person with little to no self confidence and am single and never been in a relationship. (I am 24) I pray every night God will bless me with someone but it never happens.

I believe that everyone is good at something. I think the first thing you should do is perfect that which interests you. For example: If you are a good writer, then write. God given talent, expressed and perfected can certainly help you attain a certain framework for confidence. Entering the arena of your interest such as at book fairs, lectures on the written word, etc. can expose you to someone within your sphere of interest. This helps you connect... allowing you to speak to someone that has a like interest.

That alone can allow you confidence, for you two have something in common.

Whatever talent God has given you, use it to build a future with someone.

If you enjoy a gym, movies & film, music, whatever...there is someone for you. Last, you are so very, very, young - though you think not. You have many years to live if God tarries, knowing this in your heart...take the time to develop your education & interests. Confidence follows in due time.

[OnTheHorizon]

I believe that everyone is good at something. I think the first thing you should do is perfect that which interests you. For example: If you are a good writer, then write. God given talent, expressed and perfected can certainly help you attain a certain framework for confidence. Entering the arena of your interest such as at book fairs, lectures on the written word, etc. can expose you to someone within your sphere of interest. This helps you connect... allowing you to speak to someone that has a like interest.

That alone can allow you confidence, for you two have something in common.

Whatever talent God has given you, use it to build a future with someone.

If you enjoy a gym, movies & film, music, whatever...there is someone for you. Last, you are so very, very, young - though you think not. You have many years to live if God tarries, knowing this in your heart...take the time to develop your education & interests. Confidence follows in due time.

Such good advice. :thumb

[m2pinggggggg]

I am a very shy person with little to no self confidence and am single and never been in a relationship. (I am 24) I pray every night God will bless me with someone but it never happens. I really do not know what to do.

Here's a thought. Pm me, and get on facebook, and we'll introduce you to many people from RR. Some of us chat with messenger, facebook chat, even call each other once in a while. So its not just virtual. Ok?:thinking

[The Watcher]

I am a very shy person with little to no self confidence and am single and never been in a relationship. (I am 24) I pray every night God will bless me with someone but it never happens.

I know how you feel, I'm 32 and in the same situation. I know how frustrating it can be at times. I will keep you in my prayers.:pray

[m2pinggggggg]

I know how you feel, I'm 32 and in the same situation. I know how frustrating it can be at times. I will keep you in my prayers.:pray

Prayers good! Making Luke a buddy is good too.Yep! :thinking:thumb

[The Watcher]

Prayers good! Making Luke a buddy is good too.Yep! :thinking:thumb

Even better idea, thanks.:):thumb

[mustang]

You could go out with some friends and have a blind date. They aren't all bad. That is how I met my wife and I was always shy about dating.