Ladies: What would you do??

[PRZ-Him]

Ok Ladies
Have a slight problem:unsure
DH has a Classmate.com account (No problem there)
well one of his Ex-girl friends e-mailed him.
Then called BIL(DH 's Brother) and got our #
any way she will be in town Christmas week
to visit her family. And want to meet Dh!!!

DH said I would be there too and so would her DH and
there son.

Don't know really how I feel about this at this point:thinking

[Betty]

My ex-fiancee and his wife had dinner with me and my husband after we first got married. Nothing bad happened.
I would make sure to go with your husband, though just to be safe.

[MochaMel]

Yes i 2nd Betty's comments.. I would probably be uncomfortable too; but would DEFINITELY be there if he HAD to meet with her.

My hubby ran into his 1st love some months ago via phone b/c his brother works for her brother; and i was OH so jealous at first.. Then when she called our house to chat with me; i felt much better knowing she was only just saying hello; and nothing more. :hug

[Walker]

My husband is still friends with his High School girlfriend. We attended her wedding and she usually stops by once a year or so for a visit. She is not my favorite cup of tea, but she is not a threat whatsoever to my marriage.

She and my husband were dating when they both had family issues. Her parents divorced and she and her mother had a major falling out (it was a choose me or your dad situation). She had a rough time with all of that and still hasn't seen her mom 16 years later. My husband lost his father to cancer when he was 16. She was there for him through that and it meant a lot to him.

It is probably a completely innocent visit to catch up on old times, nothing wrong with that. Don't you often wonder what people from your past are up to now?

[ByHisGrace]

Personally I wouldn't like it. I would go, look my best, be happy and polite -- but I wouldn't like it!

[Racheal59]

When we're with friends who are also married, I hug my girlfriend to say goodbye and wave at her DH. There are no hugs between us females and the husbands...that's the way we handle it. We think it's just not wise that's all. And the men don't have a problem with it. The men shake hands with one another and a pat on the back. But that's how we handle social situations among Christian friends. Now with the secular friends, we just shake hands PERIOD.....if that! We try to show the Love of Christ but again, it depends on them ...you know what I mean.

[icebear]

if its nothing more than a
"hi, ya doing, nice to see you again, lets catch up, i'm doing well, you're doing well, isn't it lovely isn't it grand"
then its probably no biggie....if they start emailing eachother, meeting for lunch calling... then there would be a problem.

You may find her to be someone you can make friends with, which depending on hubby's thoughts about it, it could be good....


thats my thought :D

[Kvat3r]

Personally I wouldn't like it. I would go, look my best, be happy and polite -- but I wouldn't like it!

I agree...I don't find it neccassary to have to deal with this kind of thing. You are married and I am not so sure your husband would be thrilled to me your X-boyfriend. Just strange to me.

[christianmom]

I agree...I don't find it neccassary to have to deal with this kind of thing. You are married and I am not so sure your husband would be thrilled to me your X-boyfriend. Just strange to me.

Exactly my thoughts!

[yeshua'sbride]

Any chemistry/attraction they had then would more than likely still be there now. Why risk re-igniting old flames?

IMO, the two of them seeking out each others company, no matter how many other people happen to be present, is just not a wise thing to do.