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manytears
February 17th, 2008, 01:32 PM
IF THIS SITE ISN'T A GOOD SOURCE PLEASE LET ME KNOW.
http://www.religionnewsblog.com/category/suicide/

A network of "suicide gurus" tell children how to kill themselves*

By Patrick Sawer
Telegraph
Last Updated: 12:23am GMT 17/02/2008

A network of "suicide gurus" who use the internet to advise people how
to kill themselves has been exposed.

Websites offering advice on how to commit suicide are linked to young deaths

Death cult: Nagasiva Yronwode, of the Church of Euthanasia

They are blamed for prompting depressed and vulnerable youngsters to
take their own lives.

One, an American satanist who boasts of writing a guide to the subject,
says: "What's the problem with ending your life via suicide?"

Another is a "pro-choice" Dutch writer whose website includes detailed
accounts of dozens of suicide methods.

Campaigners have uncovered 29 "internet suicides" in Britain since 2001,
including two new cases reported this weekend.

The findings follow the cluster of suicides among young people in
Bridgend, where a coroner is now re-examining nine deaths on top of 16
suspected suicides under investigation. It emerged on Friday that
another two young people from the Welsh town had been found hanged.
Nathaniel Pritchard, 15, and his cousin Kelly Stephenson, 20, were both
members of a social networking ­website.

Among the most notorious suicide websites, which The Sunday Telegraph
has decided not to name to avoid encouraging their use, are two
discussion forums, or "chatrooms", in which users offer advice on how to
end one's life.

In some cases, people with suicidal feelings have been encouraged to
take their own lives rather than to seek professional advice.

In a posting on one of the sites last week, a desperate user wanting to
know how to hang himself was directed, by another correspondent, to a
website containing drawings of knots and nooses.

Internet service providers and search engines like Google and Yahoo say
they cannot block these websites and forums unless they are made illegal
by the Government.

One of the most notorious figures on the internet suicide scene is
Nagasiva Yronwode, a self-confessed satanist who runs a shop selling
occult books and charms in the small Californian town of Forestville,
north of San Francisco.

Yronwode, 46, describes himself as the "outreach director" for an
extremist cult called the Church of Euthanasia, which advocates suicide
as a means of saving the world from the effects of overpopulation.

Writing under the name Boboroshi, he has edited a suicide guide, which
details various methods. Yronwode's own website contains links to online
suicide discussion boards and forums.

He told this newspaper: "The guide is there to make it easier for people
who opt for suicide to carry it out. The purpose of my information is
empowerment for competent human beings who have an interest in ending
their lives. What's the problem with that?

"I haven't seen any evidence that any person has acted as a result of
reading the guide. But, of course, people who have an interest in ending
their lives may well seek out information that relates to suicide and in
some cases that leads them to end their lives."

Yronwode rejected arguments that he was responsible for the deaths of
suicide victims.

"I'm not the protector of these troubled youths," he said. "Their
parents are the people who made them troubled. They are responsible for
them. They should look at their living conditions, genetic features and
local conditions which might lead them to take their own lives.
Everything else is a ­distraction."

Another person closely linked to the suicide discussion forums is Karin
Spaink, 50, a Dutch former schoolteacher who became a writer in 1986
after being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. Spaink is an advocate of
the right to die and has published on her website a manual detailing 41
ways of committing suicide. The manual ends with the lyrics to the song
Suicide is Painless, which featured in the 1970 film M*A*S*H.

The best-known of the suicide chat­rooms is understood to have been
founded more than 10 years ago by a British man, originally from
Newcastle upon Tyne. At one stage he was apparently operating from a
Newcastle University email address. However, there is now no trace of him.

Calle Dybedahl, a 38-year-old Swedish IT worker, later took over as
editor of the site. On his personal website, Dybedahl describes himself
as a witch and a member of a coven and says he has had psychiatric
treatment for depression.

Of the suicide discussion forum, he says: "The most basic difference in
opinion between me and those who have mailed me, telling me I'm a
monster, seems to be that they think that death is an inherently bad
thing, while I don't."

He now says he has distanced himself from the site, but defends it as
"socially useful".

Dybedahl, Spaink and Yronwode deny inciting or encouraging individuals
to take their own lives, but groups that work to help prevent youth
suicides, such as Papyrus, a Lancashire-based charity, say their writing
provides vulnerable people with instant access to graphic ways of
committing suicide.

Paul Kelly, co-founder of Papyrus, whose 18-year-old son Simon killed
himself after visiting a suicide website, said: "There is a growing
number of parents out there who can say the internet has played a role
in the deaths of their children.

"The internet offers factual advice which is accessible within seconds.
This is particularly dangerous with young people, who often work on impulse.

"People like Spaink and Yronwode are completely irresponsible. They
don't consider the consequences of their actions."

Ivan Lewis, the Health Minister, said: "I share public concern at the
impact of the internet on vulnerable people. Working with organisations
like Samaritans and internet service providers, we need to consider
whether there is more we can do together to protect them."

In one new case uncovered by Papyrus, a girl of 13 took her own life in
December after spending hours looking at websites that had details of
how to commit suicide.

Her mother said she did not know that her daughter was going through
such distress, or about the websites. She said: "We know now that the
previous evening she accessed 'how to suicide' sites, and we believe
that this aided her in her actions."

In another new case, a man of 36 killed himself last year after
apparently following online advice. In two further new cases, young
people tried to kill themselves but failed, one ending up brain-damaged
and in need of 24-hour care.

Papyrus is calling for the 1961 Suicide Act, which outlaws the promotion
of suicide, to be updated to ban its promotion on websites, in line with
other countries including Japan and Australia.

No one has ever been successfully prosecuted in Britain for inciting
someone online to take their own life. The Ministry of Justice said it
would be difficult to frame a law to ban suicide websites without also
criminalising counselling services or works of fiction.

A spokeswoman said: "The mere publication on the internet of material
that assists and/or encourages suicide would not of itself be an offence
of assisting suicide, because there needs to be a causative link with an
actual or attempted suicide. But sites which actively encourage suicide
might be committing the offence of attempting to assist ­suicide."

The signs to watch for and where to turn

• Look out for signs of depression in teenagers

• Warning signs include being withdrawn and distant

• Try to communicate and make them feel comfortable by discussing their
concerns

• Encourage troubled teenagers to see a GP or counsellor; offer to take them

• Listen to what they tell you and do not be judgmental

• Tell them that you love them no matter what and give them a hug

• If they won't talk to you, encourage them to talk to a friend or sibling

• If they are living away from home, go and see them

:pray:shocked:shocked

John730
February 17th, 2008, 01:42 PM
Here's a reliable link on this terrible and evil subject.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2008/02/17/nweb117.xml

I'm disgusted.

Come, Lord Jesus, come! :pray

manytears
February 17th, 2008, 01:50 PM
thank you very much. Is that other site not a good one?

John730
February 17th, 2008, 01:52 PM
I don't know if the other site is a good one, but as far as I understand, blog sites are generally not accepted here. It basically says the same thing though.

manytears
February 17th, 2008, 02:02 PM
when it said news I didn't pay attention that it also said blog. YIKES!!

Sorry mods - I didn't mean to break any rules - honest. :hug:doh

John730
February 17th, 2008, 02:24 PM
I'm sure the mods will forgive you. :) But what a sick world we live in! :pray

funmudder
February 17th, 2008, 02:25 PM
said it before, say it again: KIDS DO NOT BELONG ON THE INTERNET.

Especially unsupervised.

I'm sure someone will come along behind me saying how silly that is, but frankly the proof is out there. Anyone see a connection between violence, suicide and all the other horrid things kids are involved in these days and the popularity of the internet? Prior to the information highway, things were just not so insane with our youth. Even 'good kids' will check out sites they heard about in passing, mostly to see what the fuss is about, ALL of them believing 'that wont affect me' not understanding that once something is in your head, it's there. No delete button.
I'm yet to meet a kid who could not get around a "nanny" program given enough alone time with it.

:tsk

TravisandJill
February 17th, 2008, 05:47 PM
I had a hard time believing there was a website like that so I checked and sure enough there was. How very sad:ohno I read some of the people's stories and my heart grieved. I prayed over everyone that belonged to that site that God would open their eyes and they would be saved...
People dont realize that when they do this they are leaving behind family and friends who will always be traumatized by the experience. My grandpa hung himself and my mom found him, she will always be a little "messed up" by seeing that. I cannot imagine loosing someone close to me this way, my heart would be broken.
:pray
Please pray hard for these lost people

Jill

TravisandJill
February 17th, 2008, 05:50 PM
said it before, say it again: KIDS DO NOT BELONG ON THE INTERNET.

Especially unsupervised.

I'm sure someone will come along behind me saying how silly that is, but frankly the proof is out there. Anyone see a connection between violence, suicide and all the other horrid things kids are involved in these days and the popularity of the internet? Prior to the information highway, things were just not so insane with our youth. Even 'good kids' will check out sites they heard about in passing, mostly to see what the fuss is about, ALL of them believing 'that wont affect me' not understanding that once something is in your head, it's there. No delete button.
I'm yet to meet a kid who could not get around a "nanny" program given enough alone time with it.

:tsk


I agree! Makes me glad I homeschool my kids and we are moving to a really rural area. Kids loose their innocence so fact these days it breaks my heart

colo25
February 17th, 2008, 07:49 PM
This is honestly the most messed up thing I have ever seen!! :tsk :tsk
What is wrong with these people? Why dont they directly direct them to a hotline, or a resource that's worth a hoot!! Just EVIL I tell ya !!
AARRRRGGGHHHHH!
Unbelievable...:doh
This world is done morally.
I just dont know what to say, I want to cry!
sick, just sick sick sick.
Please Lord Jesus, please come quickly :pray
Colo