So hard

[funmudder]

you are a lighthouse for those lost in the apathy hon. Remember, even when they pull out the line used by those depending on cheap grace, they are watching to see if you will step down to that level. If you do (and don't beat yourself up if you have, because we all have at one point) they feel more comfortable in their backsliding. However, if you stand firm, and live to please the Lord instead of your peers, you will encourage them (even if the mock you at first) that living as a follower of Christ IS possible in todays world.
Your firm resolve today, could be what calls them to repentance tomorrow.

Do you have a Christian support group to lean on when things get tough? Venting here is a blessing, to be sure! But virtual relationships are a shadow of what real life relationships can do when things get rocky.

:hug:

[CitySearcher]

That's a big amen Funmudder! Continuing to pray for you Violet. May God give you his Peace and Comfort each day as you head out into this evil world.
Give Him the thanks and praise for everything that happens in your life, whether good or bad, and He will reveal Himself to you more and more each day. Hold fast! Our day is soon approaching....

-Steve

[TradaPIB]

you are a lighthouse for those lost in the apathy hon. Remember, even when they pull out the line used by those depending on cheap grace, they are watching to see if you will step down to that level. If you do (and don't beat yourself up if you have, because we all have at one point) they feel more comfortable in their backsliding. However, if you stand firm, and live to please the Lord instead of your peers, you will encourage them (even if the mock you at first) that living as a follower of Christ IS possible in todays world.
Your firm resolve today, could be what calls them to repentance tomorrow.

Do you have a Christian support group to lean on when things get tough? Venting here is a blessing, to be sure! But virtual relationships are a shadow of what real life relationships can do when things get rocky.

:hug:

I do. I have a great family, church and family friends who actually care about me. Plus, one of the teachers at my school is aware and working against the apathy of us students. He is awesome and his office door is always open :)

@Rebekah, thanks for sharing aye. It's good to know I'm not the only one who has experienced this.

Thanks again for the support RR peeps. I've lurked in these forums for years rarely making a post (never a personal one like this). I should have expected such a warm reply :yay

The Bible verses given to me.. I'm commiting them to memory. So applicable.

[Dorie]

I feel that it is a spirit of apathy in that place, & I'd like to suggest that everytime you enter it say "Peace be unto this place".
It is harder for a young person to be a christian since they are afraid of looking different, or losing their peers. So, all you can do is to stay strong, & show them by your example, & pray for them. I know it's hard. Remember, even Jesus was not able to get His own people to listen to Him!

[wannie]

You probably are one of God's favorite students there!

[Mailman Dan]

Its normal to have fears. A hero is not someone who is brave enough to do something for others, a hero is someone who has fears, but does it anyway. When someones eternal life is at stake, and you care about them, it'll give you the motive you need. Pray to God for what you need. Paul asked that others would pray for him, that he would speak boldly. Despite his fear, God granted those prayer request.

And like previously suggested, check out some places for training, like Way of the Master, to help you get prepared.

Dan~~~>uses alot of their tools

[gospelman]

Hi tada,

You might want to listen to this challenging message and then find some way of getting your friends to listen afterwards:

http://www.christianaudio.org.uk/examineyourself.mp3

I believe it's also on video at either Google Video or Youtube.

You might also remind them of Hebrews 12:14 "Without holiness no-one will see the Lord"

Holiness audio mp3 and written resources are here:
http://www.holiness.org.uk

You might also like to print off this Charles Finney article (I have updated it to modern wording and usage, eg reference to copying of CDs (of which I myself was guilty and about which Jesus challenged me):

http://www.newchristian.org.uk/revival.html

A word of warning: no matter how upright your Christian walk, Jesus will use this sermon to challenge you! It challenged me when I went through this exercise, but it will lead to an "open heaven" between you and Jesus. So it's best if you go through it first with an honest and open heart before the Lord and deal with it yourself, before you pass it to others.

With Love in Jesus

[TradaPIB]

My good friend Beka (who is in my year) lent me The Way of the Master. Though I have heard Hell's Best Kept Secret before I was greatly encouraged by this book. And also the fact that... heck.. She's there for me too. :)

[Mailman Dan]

I really advise you to watch some of the video's. I've taken in more by watching others witness thatn reading about it. Find a few Christian friends to pray with, and plan together how to reach the lost in your area. Paul didn't usually travel alone...


Dan~~~>likes having company too