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eve_anne_gelical
November 20th, 2008, 01:10 AM
Michelle Malkin reports:

So, this is “progress?” eHarmony, a Christian-targeted dating website, gets sued by a gay man demanding that the business match him up with a same-sex partner. The New Jersey Attorney General intervenes on behalf of the gay plaintiff and forces eHarmony to change its entire business model. To be clear: The company never refused to do business with anyone. Their great “sin” was not providing a specialized service that litigious gay people demanded they provide. This case is akin to a meat-eater suing a vegetarian restaurant for not offering him a ribeye or a female patient suing a vasectomy doctor for not providing her hysterectomy services. Sadly, eHarmony has settled . I wish they hadn’t, but I understand the decision given the chilling antics of the anti-Prop. 8 mob. The company agreed not only to offer same-sex dating services on a new site, but also to offer six-month subscriptions for free to 10,000 gay users. Behold the submission:

Coming soon to EHarmony — Adam and Steve.

The Pasadena-based dating website, heavily promoted by Christian evangelical leaders when it was founded, has agreed in a civil rights settlement to give up its heterosexuals-only policy and offer same-sex matches.

EHarmony was started by psychologist Neil Clark Warren, who is known for his mild-mannered television and radio advertisements. It must not only implement the new policy by March 31 but also give the first 10,000 same-sex registrants a free six-month subscription.

“That was one of the things I asked for,” said Eric McKinley, 46, who complained to New Jersey’s Division on Civil Rights after being turned down for a subscription in 2005.

The company said that Warren was not giving interviews on the settlement. But attorney Theodore Olson, who issued a statement on the company’s behalf, made clear that it did not agree to offer gay matches willingly. “Even though we believed that the complaint resulted from an unfair characterization of our business,” Olson said, “we ultimately decided it was best to settle this case with the attorney general since litigation outcomes can be unpredictable.”

The settlement, which did not find that EHarmony broke any laws, calls for the company to either offer the gay matches on its current venue or create a new site for them. EHarmony has opted to create a site called Compatiblepartners.net.

Warren had said in past interviews that he didn’t want to feature same-sex services on EHarmony — which matches people based on long questionnaires concerning personality traits, relationship history and interests — because he felt he didn’t know enough about gay relationships.

eHarmony had been previously sued by a lesbian looking to force the company to match her up with another woman and by a married man who sought to force the company to hook him up in an adulterous relationship.

Perhaps heterosexual men and women should start filing lawsuits against gay dating websites and undermine their business. Coerced tolerance and diversity-by-fiat cut both ways.

Rebecki
November 20th, 2008, 01:17 AM
If I was the owner of eHarmony and the judge ruled in favor of the homosexual and ruled that I had to "hook him up", I'd shut down eHarmony for good.

No way would I compromise and play a role in setting up sinful relations.

Minori
November 20th, 2008, 01:19 AM
This is an outrage! How completely ridiculous is this?? I used to be pretty cool with the gay rights movement, but now I just can't see it that way! These people are going crazy. They've been nothing short of horrible to Christians!!

I'm aware that not everyone in the gay community is like that, but what I've seen just this past week has been shocking and disturbing! I'm getting really sick of these shenanigans! :rant

Jaiu
November 20th, 2008, 01:21 AM
Adam and Steve...? x_x

LadyJ
November 20th, 2008, 01:23 AM
:reaction I agree, I would have just shut the whole thing down. I'd have said, "FIND YOOUUUURRR OOOOWNNN DAting service, or start your own!" UGH!

twinkle
November 20th, 2008, 01:27 AM
one after another, the dominoes fall...

CarlaL48
November 20th, 2008, 08:29 AM
Michelle Malkin reports:

Perhaps heterosexual men and women should start filing lawsuits against gay dating websites and undermine their business. Coerced tolerance and diversity-by-fiat cut both ways.[/I][/COLOR]


You know, perhaps we should spend a little time and thought exploring this idea. In fact, generalize the principle to include suing to have the 10 commandments displayed in government buildings, sue the major retailers who want our Christmas dollars but refuse to say "Merry Christmas," sue the teacher who took the first graders to a lesbian marriage because she didn't balance it with taking them to a "holy" heterosexual marriage, etc., etc.

icebear
November 20th, 2008, 08:35 AM
cause we aren't that pushy. we get told that we are, but we are not. quite obviously.

Ronin
November 20th, 2008, 09:28 AM
What's next, blatant homosexual as church secretary? Yep, can see it coming!

watchwoman
November 20th, 2008, 09:30 AM
But maybe that's part of the problem -maybe we need to be more outspoken (aka: "pushy" to some).

I don't mean in-your-face, but doing as the Bible says - to stand. I don't see anything wrong with suing to have our beliefs at least given equal footing! We'd just need to see if the Christian lawyers would get involved with us pro bono - that's what the homosexuals/ACLU are doing. If we don't stand up for ourselves, no one else will do it for us! :nod