Donna, please try to come back later and look at the thread with new eyes. As I read it, I do not see people trying to hurt you or insult you.
I see people sharing their insights and life experiences with you and one another, enjoying *mommy talk* with you and also asking honest questions to understand something. That's what people do in conversations and that's what Christians do with one another. We are not to be afraid to accept constructive criticism or honest questions.
If you feel hurt, please PM the person to talk it out. We cannot let hurts build and give the enemy a foothold in our lives or among the Body. Another for you.