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    Default Contentment (some bible study notes I wanted to share)

    Some of you know what I've been going through this past month. If you don't, just know that it's been the hardest month of my life for more than one reason. I've never felt like this or had my faith tested so much. Well, during my bible studies recently, God has been showing me that even though it's good to pray for Him to fix this and trust that He will, I need to learn to be content with having just Him in the mean time. I want to share some of my bible study notes on this subject in hopes that it will help you too. All of the verses I'm posting are from the New American Standard Bible.

    We all know the verse "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me."...but yesterday I read it in context, and this is what Paul was actually saying:

    "I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me." -Phillipians 4:11-13

    He wasn't just saying that he can do anything because he has Christ (although that is true to); he was saying that he can be content and survive in any circumstance because he has Christ! By "I can do all thing through Christ who strengthens me", he was actually saying "I can survive any circumstance through Christ who strengthens me." This gives me so much hope that I can do the same, while being content and trusting in God. No matter what I have or don't have, I will be okay because I have Him. Now, of course, this doesn't mean that we can't be sad when something goes wrong. Even Jesus got sad. Rather, it means that we can't worry, question God, or rely on other things/people to give us fulfillment.

    After reading this, I was sure that God was telling me to pray for what I want, but to be content in the mean time without it- becaue I still have Him, and only He can fulfill me. So, I knew that I needed to do this, but I didn't know how. God revealed to me that for starters, I didn't need to be thinking and praying about my problem 24/7. He let me know that I could just pray about it at the beginning of the day and then let it go- trusting that just because it's not on my mind doen't mean that He forgot. He's still taking care of it all day. So, every morning, I started praying about it first thing, and then letting it go for the rest of the day. Still though, I felt like I was just sitting around waiting for Him to answer me and make things good again instead of being content until He did. I prayed a very honest prayer, saying that I needed help to be content because I had no idea how. That's when He led me to read 1 Timothy, and this is what I found:

    In chapter 6, Paul was calling out the people who were using Christianity as a way of trying to get rich. They thought God would give them Eartly abundance if they prayed for it. He responded by saying this: "Godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment. For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either. If we have food and covering, with these we shall be content. But those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a snare and many foolish and harmful desires which plunge men into ruin and detructoin. For the love of money is root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many greifs." -1 Timothy 6:6-10

    Now, my desire isn't for money, it's for a person. Still though, God used this verse to confirm that He definitely IS telling me to be content with what I have until He chooses to give me more. I still didn't know how though, until I read on and saw this:

    "Flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, Godliness, faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness." -1 Timothy 6:11

    This is how we become content- by fixing our focus on these things intead of on what we want in this world! Again, this doesn't mean that we can't pray for what we want if we have good intentions- but it means that we can't rely on those things as our hope. We instead must put our focus on living right, loving, having faith, being gentle, and persevering through trial. If you focus on doing things related to that, you will be content and not have time to focus on what you don't have!

    Lastly, I read 1 Timothy 6:17, which says "Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy." This told me that God DOES give us extra stuff that we ask for, but we just can't fix our hope on that. We need to seek Him first and let Him give us the extras at the right time. Jut like Matthew 6:33 when Jesus says "Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."

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    Thank you Genesis22 for sharing that! I needed to be reminded of this and renew it in my heart. Christ should have been my only desire, but in all my early years here on Earth I had a hard time being content. Some ministries added to that after I was saved.

    It's getting easier as I mature in Him, and hear the word as you just shared. I really feel bad that I complained and didn't put my trust in Him. It was hard to be content when I was hurting so much. Mine had to do with people mostly. But even finances have always been an issue in my life as a kid and even now we struggle with finances, (and I with my health issues).

    But it's so much easier to be happy in what ever situation we're in now. I will admit I still have some moments when I do "freak" out-like when our only car breaks down! But I really, really, really need to thank Him for all the blessings He's given me. Looking back I shouldn't have complained-even losing family members in death was His plan. So many have it worse than I can imagine.

    Now I'm trying to teach my grandkids to be content. I wasn't the best role model for my kids. God has blessed them so much and I know they are grateful to Jesus for it. But even with all the physical blessings we get from Him, we can have issues with contentment-especially in marriage. I won't go into that part, I've posted too much already!

    It's a whole lot easier to be content now because the cares of this world are deminishing for me knowing our time here is short. I think there was a thread on this, but I didn't post anything..Wishing I hadn't wasted sadness in those past years; I know so much more now, and God blessed me despite my griping! Take care and thank you again for posting this! s LynnE
    LynnE

    Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: May they prosper who love you! Ps 122:6



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    I'm so glad this helped you. There's nothing wrong with being upset about loosing people; it's only when you start to complain and doubt God's plan that it becomes wrong. I've been guilty of that too.

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    Genesis22, I'm confident our Lord is using these very difficult circumstances in your life to forge you into a channel of blessing for many people. You've already blessed us, so much, here in this thread. Thank you so much for sharing your study notes with us.

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    Default We all have gone thru this.

    I have been thru a lot in the 36 years that I have been on this earth, I have lost many loved ones, tried to commit suicide after my moms death at 11, got married and divorced at an early age, and thru everything I have been able to because of Christ, either he has sent someone into my life to guide me thru the trouble times or thru the Bible he has reached out to me to show me no matter what he is there. The Poem Footprints is one of the greatest poems to show us that every step of our lives that God is there calling to us and asking us to place our trust in him. Many times in our lives we tend to rush out and do our own thing with waiting for God's TimeTable and be content with what we have, or are in our lives.

    http://www.footprints-inthe-sand.com...=Poem/Poem.php
    Footprints in the Sand
    One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
    Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
    In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
    Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
    other times there were one set of footprints.
    This bothered me because I noticed
    that during the low periods of my life,
    when I was suffering from
    anguish, sorrow or defeat,
    I could see only one set of footprints.
    So I said to the Lord,
    "You promised me Lord,
    that if I followed you,
    you would walk with me always.
    But I have noticed that during
    the most trying periods of my life
    there have only been one
    set of footprints in the sand.
    Why, when I needed you most,
    you have not been there for me?"
    The Lord replied,
    "The times when you have
    seen only one set of footprints,
    is when I carried you."
    Mary Stevenson
    This righteousness is given through faith in[h] Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. (Romans 3:22-24 NIV)

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    Awesome post and a really good reminder for all of us!
    Jesus, please come back TODAY!!!!

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    Genesis, you have no idea how much your post is and will help people and we thank you for it. :-)

    I know your heart has been hurting, I am so sorry. But, I truly feel this is all happening as a test of faith. Look at what you are learning about our Lord as you try to make sense of your suffering.

    I am always amazed when I remember that you have only been a Christian for about 2 years and for how young you are, you are so mature, both in wisdom and faith. I am happy to call you my sister.

    My prayers are with you and your situation.
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    Thank you all so much! I'm still in a lot of pain, but I've finally let God take over. The other day, I was going somewhere with a family member and they were driving kind of crazy on a swervy road. I was a little frightened, so I closed my eyes and said "God, please get me there safely". Then it hit me- why don't I do that in every area of my life? Instead of striving to fix my problems and figure it all out myself, I just need to give God the steering wheel, close my eyes when it gets scary, and say "God, please get me there safely". Kind of like the song "Jesus Take the Wheel" (I know that's not exactly from a Christian cd, but you get the point). That's what I've decided to do. I didn't before because I was afraid that He wouldn't do what I want....but I realize now that He knows every detail of my situation better than I do, and if I need these things as badly as I think I do, He knows that and will give them to me at the right time. But either way, even if I am supposed to have these things, I need to let go of them for now so He can do it. Either way, I need to focus only on Him right now.

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