Absolutely not! Now let me say everyone looks> Anyone who says they don't is a liar. But as far as looking and staring and lusting, no way. that would be disrespectful to Mrs. "Daveyboy".
Please people, please stop trying to figure out the problem with my mariage. I originally posted to vent some frustration and maybe get some support and prayer. Now it's like there's some kind of prize if someone can figure out the mystery here. The fact is, and I've stated this many posts ago, she doesn't have a relationship with God outside of just going to church. That's the big problem. I also think she is depressed but she is afraid of going to the doc because she fears she will be labled as nuts or something. She, her Mom, and my wife's daughter are all like this-it's a vicious cycle. They all must've been absent the day they taught the golden rule in Sunday school. They have such incrediblly high unattainable standards for everyone and how everyone treats them.The problem is that they treat everyone however they want to but still expect that high level of treatment towards them. My mistake in marrying this woman was that I saw all this-the unbelievable jealousy, the insecurity, the anger and bitterness, the stubborn pride, before I married her. My mistake was thnking that this was because she had been in some bad relationships with some bad guys. But when she saw how true-blue of a man I am, she will have her faith in men restored and she will loosen up a little. My stupidity. Trying too hard to be an optimist. I am continuing to suffer theu this marriage and I will never cheat no matter how bad it gets. But I will be honest, I can't take much more of this before one day just calling it quits. But for now I thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers. But please people try to stop figuring this thing out. I know what the problem is.